In his defense

[theron09]

Okay, so I'm still upset and nothing's been sorted out but I think I need to explain something.

He might have said the wrong thing and he might be being oblivious but he's not a horrible person. He's been there for me through so, so much and he's done so much for me. I don't think for one minute that he set out to hurt me, I just think he didn't realise what he was saying. To be fair, it's not like he knows how much I like him.

Thanks for all of the support from you guys. I love you all! *hugs*

pippii  - thank you so much for the v-gift!! *huggles*

Comments

[theron09.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I think he needs to admit that he could have handled it better. But I think I also need to remember that he has no idea how I feel about him. And if any of my other male friends had said something like that, I would have been upset but it was worse because it's him.

[theron09.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I think slothfulzel said it best below: people say bad things but it doesn't make them bad for saying it.

I don't know, after thinking about it for a bit I think he was sort of joking to try and change the subject and it was probably just a reaction to being put on the spot. Still hurt though.

I'll try not to.

*huggles*

[slothfulzel.livejournal.com]

Yeah, hence the 'no-guy-bashin' from me. People say things, but it doesn't make them bad for saying it. I just hope it all works out for you guys in the end and you at least get to keep his friendship! ♥

[theron09.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I really don't want anyone to think that he's horrible because he really isn't!

Yeah, I hope it works out. I don't think we'll not be friends, I'm just worried that we won't be friends in the way we were before.

[trinipedia.livejournal.com]

I knew you'd come around <3

Everything will be okay, you'll see!

You'll overcome this and come out stronger and wiser.

[theron09.livejournal.com]

Yeah, well I don't want everyone to think that he's a mean person because he isn't.

<3

I really hope I do.

[savedean.livejournal.com]

Well, I'm sure you didn't mention him as your best friend for nothing, so I'm glad that you stick up for him. We don't know him, of course, so our instinct is to protect YOU. Like your friends say, misunderstandings are always gonna happen - just, don't let him hurt more than necessary for no reason, okay? These kinds of situations can be really sticky because you care so much for them.

Just be careful ♥
We love you too, hon~
*hugs*

[theron09.livejournal.com]

Thanks so much for your support - it really does mean a lot!

I'm really going to try and be careful. Believe me, I don't want to feel like I did last night any time soon.

*huggles*

[savedean.livejournal.com]

Anytime, sweets ♥

[pippii.livejournal.com]

I hope things work out for you two honey.
And you´re so very welcome♥
Hugs

[theron09.livejournal.com]

Thank you <3

*huggles*

[nitro26.livejournal.com]

Aww. You're a nice friend. :) Hope I didn't say anything to offend, sweetie. ♥ Keep us updated, alright? *hugs*

[theron09.livejournal.com]

Oh you really didn't :) I just kind of felt bad because everyone was thinking he's mean and he really isn't!!

I will definitely keep you updated :)

*hugs*

[akintay.livejournal.com]

I didn't think he was - you wouldn't be your best friend if he was a bad person or anything. But I still think he had a right saying something like that to you :( But I hope he'll realize that he shouldn't have said that and you two can work things out!

[theron09.livejournal.com]

Yeah, he did say the wrong thing.

I think we'll be able to work things out - we're still talking so that's good!

[theron09.livejournal.com]

Thank you <3

'It really sucks when friendships kinda turn into something more and kinda don't at the same time'

EXACTLY :(

*hugs*

[schnute23.livejournal.com]

[theron09.livejournal.com]

<3

Aww, thank you!

[theron09.livejournal.com]

<3

Thank you!!

[silverraven.livejournal.com]

Hey, I just read your posts. Sorry for the lateness. And I'm even sorrier that this happened to you. I hope you're feeling better today and that you two are able to work this out and keep the friendship!

*hugshugshugs*

[theron09.livejournal.com]

Thank you so much!

I have a good feeling about the friendship now.

Hope you're well <3

*hugs*

[contrition.livejournal.com]

It's the worst when someone that you really care about hurts you because you know all of their good qualities and all of the happy experiences you've had together and yet it still doesn't change the fact that they really let you down. :( I really hope he apologizes and goes back to being a better friend to you. *hugs*

[theron09.livejournal.com]

Exactly - I think it hurt more because I knew that it was totally not like him.

We seem to be sorting things out, though, so I'm happier now!

*huggles*